Join free

Safety

Safety isn’t optional — it’s essential. Here’s how to keep yourself secure while exploring new connections.

Stay in Our Safe Community

We remove scammers fast. Keep your messages on-site to stay safe.

Connect First, Confirm Next

Chat on video to get a feel for things, but deepfakes mean you should still verify identity elsewhere.

Keep Your Confidence Private

Scammers may seem charming — until they use your photos for blackmail.

Keep the First Date Casual

Public areas like cafés or exhibitions allow safe, easy conversation.

Check In Before and After

Let someone know before you go out — and message when you’re safely home.

Keep a Full Battery

Always charge your phone and ensure you can make calls if needed.

Don’t Share Transport

Always use your own means to get there and back — never your date’s.

Don’t Mix Too Much

Sticking to one type (or opting out) helps you stay in control.

Public Dates Are Safer

Only meet in public until you’ve had time to establish trust.

Enjoy the Experience Fully

Be present, smile, and make the most of every moment.